Talking about money in a relationship can be uncomfortable. But what if you could turn those awkward conversations into a game plan for building real wealth…. together?
In this episode of the Love and Money Podcast, Tracy sits down with Bola Sokunbi, founder of Clever Girl Finance and bestselling author of My Wealth Plan Workbook and the Clever Girl Finance series. Bola shares her personal journey of building financial independence and why empowering women with money is her life’s mission. Together, they dive into what it actually takes to manage money as a couple, get on the same page financially, and build wealth with intention, without losing your mind (or your marriage) in the process.
This episode is packed with wisdom, heart, and practical strategies that couples at any stage of life can use to grow together financially.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
💡 Why joint finances don’t work for every couple, and what to do instead
💡 How to talk about money when one partner avoids it (or hates it)
💡 What to do when your financial styles don’t match
💡 The power of setting regular money “check-ins” as a couple
💡 How Bola and her husband balance shared goals with individual freedom
👉 Whether you’re just starting a life together, navigating money disagreements, or trying to rebuild after divorce, this episode will help you rethink how money and love can actually work side by side.
How to build wealth as a team with your romantic partner:
✅ Create shared goals, but keep space for personal autonomy.
✅ Set a recurring time to talk about finances that works for both of you.
✅ Don’t force your partner to change. Lead by example and invite them in.
✅ Use each other’s strengths to divide and conquer financial tasks.
✅ Remember: money is a tool, not a power play.
🎧 Tune in now to learn how to align your finances with your relationship, so you can build a future that works for both of you.
Resources & Links:
📌 Explore over 30 free courses at https://www.clevergirlfinance.com
📘 Check out My Wealth Plan Workbook https://amzn.to/4k24nYg
📱 Follow Bola on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance
