I know that dating may be the furthest thing from your mind if you’re in the middle of divorce. But whether it seems like it or not, you’ll probably end up dating again. So why not do it succesfully?
Bela Gandhi is this week’s guest on the Find Me The Money Podcast. She is the founder of Smart Dating Academy, and is here to help us be better at dating after divorce.
The statistics regarding second and third marriages ending in divorce are sobering, so we want to get this right. Bela shares how to know what you’re ready to date again, and cautions us against dating when you’re lonely and seeking companionship, but not truly ready to date yet.
Smart Dating Academy helps their clients come up with a dating plan, because that’s how you find the right partner the second time around. We talk about the value in online dating sites and some tips for using them successfully. Bela talks about red flags to look out for when you’re dating, and how a dating coach could help you find true love.
Keep an open mind about the ways you will meet a potential future mate. And don’t take it all so seriously. Just go into dating with the idea that you’ll have some fun meetups and maybe you’ll meet someone nice. When you’re ready to take dating more seriously, then you can think about dating more intentionally and looking for your future partner.
